Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The Ugly Side of Blogging

This post is dedicated to the men, women and gays who are constantly attacking my other balay, Barrio Siete.


You inspire me to make this very timely tribute.

Within the next few days, I will be celebrating my 3rd anniversary since I created this humble blog and I thank you for your continued patronage. Without you my dear readers, I would be nothing and my colleagues in Barrio Siete especially La Kapitana wouldn’t have noticed me. I have learned a lot from blogging but the most important experiences I have had so far was when I joined the said collective blog. I have learned a lot. Blogging is fun, but just like life, there’s ups and downs. Laughter and sadness. Tears of joy and sorrow. The good thing though is that at the end of the day, there’s always lessons learned from these experiences.

When you tackle a certain issue especially the sensitive ones, expect feedbacks, both positive and negative and everything should be dealt and responded accordingly, in a civilised way of course.

Unfortunately, hindi lahat ng tao ang nagagawa ito. Especially now that the elections are a few days from now, lumalabas ang tunay na kulay ng mga tao kung sino man ang kanilang napiling mamumuno sa ating bansa. Sa panahong ito nasusubok ang integrity, loyalty, morality and level of respect ng isang tao based from whatever choices he makes.

Barrio Siete is composed of unique writers, both regular and contributing. Like you, hindi rin pare-pareho ang stand and choices kung sino ang mas angkop na maging pangulo. Despite the diversity, we are still able to get along and communicate, support and respect each others choices.

Many of you are unaware that a few personalities in the blogosphere have been throwing insults, making up stories and personally attacking several writers and Barrio Siete in general. Not just because of the choices we make but for the very simple reason: hatred.


Itong mga personalidad na nagtatago sa likod ng kanilang mga blogs na walang ginawa kundi insultuhin at siraan ang mga taong hindi sang-ayon sa kanilang mga opinion. That’s what they do best. Instead of giving a decent answer and a healthy rebuttal, they attack not just your statement and choices but also your sexual preference, educational attainment, gender, race and family. Irrelevant issues in general.

I’m just wondering that with all these attacks, they never really take on real men. Lahat ng mga inaaway nila ay mga babae at mga bakla. Bakit? Yun lang ba ang kaya nilang awayin? Takot ba silang masuntok? Baka mag-smear ang make-up? According to my soul sister sa pananampalataya, this is the behaviour of a person with a lot of personal issues that he has not yet fully accepted. Yun bang tipong may tinatago at gustong i-express but cannot that’s why they take their miseries on other people. Perhaps consider getting out of the closet? Maybe not.
Or is it drugs? I know some are former (or baka hanggang ngayon pa rin) drug dependents. Baka napasukan na rin ng alikabok ang kukote noh? Sana magpa-admit na lang muna sa rehab bago magtatatalak ng kung anu-anong kasinungalingan sa kani-kanilang mga balay, accusing some of the writers illegal immigrants in the U.S. Commenting on their own blog posts using a different name, kunwari may nagko-comment talaga. So funny and pathetic.
What about childhood trauma. They’ve been bullied as a kid that’s why they did their best in school and now that they’re well-equipped ‘intellectuals’ they use this to fire the ‘helpless’ ones. Puede?
But what’s with the name calling? Parang larong bata lang at 50? Yes, mga matatanda na kayo, I know. Kung kelan pa tumanda saka pa naging pasaway. Some even called former Pres. Cory Aquino a slut. No person in the right mind would say that to a very well respected President. She may not be perfect but that doesn’t give you the right to call her that. Alalahanin niyo, babae din ang nanay niyo and I’m certain that there are a lot of women in your family. What if I call your mother that, would that make you smile? Because if I had the chance, I might say that but I know better. Which brings me to my final ‘theory’ why the hatred.

I’d call her ‘mother of an ugly child with a small wiener’.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

I Hate Facebook

I lost a friend on Facebook.

No, he did not die. He can’t die. He’s invincible. Hahaha!



He decided to delete his account for reasons I can totally relate and understand.
I had my Facebook when everyone else is still into Friendster. I find the latter already gasgas thus I decided to abandon it like an unwanted child. Social networking is really not my thing. I don’t like people, especially crowded places. I hate going to parties especially when it’s full of people I don’t know. Acquaintances are forgettable and I’m a forgetful person. Blame it on drugs. The legal ones.

The problem is, everybody’s on Facebook and although a part of me doesn’t want to be there, the need to be there is unavoidable. So far, so good.

But unfortunately, there are those things that irritate me and I can’t help but share it with you because I know some if not most of you share the same sentiment.
Maldito posted a similar entry last week and commenting on his post is not enough that’s why I have to write a full entry on this. Hahaha!

1. Tagging. Some friends upload photos and tags everybody even if they’re not in the said photo. Funny photos are acceptable because everybody needs a good laugh. I have this one friend who travels frequently and when he uploads his travel photos he tags everyone in his friends list , like saying ‘I have been to this place’. Like I care kung saang impyerno ka nagpunta?

2. Game invites. Okay, you might not like the next few statements but I have to tell you I hate Facebook games so please spare me the invitations and all. I think it’s unhealthy and stupid to create a virtual farm with so many plant species on the same area. In reality, you can’t have a certain specie beside another specie because they have different needs. Watermelon needs water a lot, while mangoes prefer a warmer climate. So next time you plan to invite me as your neighbor, DON’T!

3. Bizaare status updates. People like other people to know what they’re doing at the moment. I admit, guilty din ako sa ganitong gawain, but some people go beyond the extreme and it’s quite disturbing to the point that they might actually need a shrink. I once commented on a friend’s bizaare status update, the next thing I know I’m being ‘interviewed’ by the girlfriend. Hello? Get a life.

4. Likes. Status updates that are funny, witty, intelligent and quotable deserved to be liked. But some friends tend to like one’s status update even if it’s just plain ‘good morning’, ‘good evening’, ‘is sitting’, ‘is walking’, the list goes on. Ano ba! Do you need to like everybody’s status update so they will like yours too? Kaloka! Hahaha!

5. Fan invites. Just recently, I removed a schoolmate who keeps sending a become fan suggestion of this aesthetic center. Everytime I ignore the said invitation, she keeps on sending it back. The thing is, if I wanted to be a fan of a particular person or whatever, it's up to me to look for it. And if I ignored what you suggested it obviously shows I'm not interested. Get it?

6. The dreaded pillows. I just think it's immature and annoying. If only there's an application to hit you back with a metal pipe, I would. Hahaha!

Hay naku. Marami pa sana akong sasabihin kaya lang I’m sure inis na ang ilan sa inyo na mga tinamaan.

I'm not deleting my Facebook account yet. But if you hated this post, feel free to remove me from your list. Hahaha!

Whatever. I don’t care.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Sorry James

I knew it.

Avatar lost to Kathryn Bigelow’s The Hurt Locker.



Yehey!

James Cameron also lost the Best Director trophy to his ex-wife. Yes, Kathryn.



I loved it when Barbra Streisand upon announcing the Best Director said,

“It’s about time.”

As expected, acting awards went to Sandra Bullock, Mo’nique, Jeff Bridges and Christophe Waltz.

Meanwhile my favourite to win Best Picture, Up was named Best Animated Film and Best Original Score for Michael Giacchino who I think gave the best speech of the night.

Thank you, guys. When I was... I was nine and I asked my dad, "Can I have your movie camera? That old, wind-up 8 millimeter camera that was in your drawer?" And he goes, "Sure, take it." And I took it and I started making movies with it and I started being as creative as I could, and never once in my life did my parents ever say, "What you're doing is a waste of time." Never. And I grew up, I had teachers, I had colleagues, I had people that I worked with all through my life who always told me what you're doing is not a waste of time. So that was normal to me that it was OK to do that. I know there are kids out there that don't have that support system so if you're out there and you're listening, listen to me: If you want to be creative, get out there and do it. It's not a waste of time. Do it. OK? Thank you. Thank you.


Better luck next time, James. Please, no more blue creatures. Ayaw ni Pope.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Rock

I wonder why most of our rock bands here look so plain, dowdy and fashionably boring.

Just look at these foreign bands.

Oasis


Garbage


Muse


Coldplay


Good Charlotte


Even Korea's F.T. Island looks fierce.


Meanwhile, here's Parokya ni Edgar


Kamikazee


Rivermaya

Cueshe


I think Pinoy rock bands are in desperate need of a good stylist.
Grunge is so 90's. If Kurt Cobain were alive today, he'll surely submit himself to a fashion makeover.

Unless these Pinoy rock bands wants to achieve a 'goofy madungis look'.

Friday, March 5, 2010

Blue

I oftentimes go to sleep early during Fridays.

I don't know why but it's kinda lonely every Friday afternoon when everbody else is out.

I feel tired.

Sad.

Alone.



Good night.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Oh Coco

This is one of my favourite supermodel Coco Rocha.


She's 21 years old, 5'10" and weighs around 120lbs.

She's a size 4 in American size.

Unfortunately, at size 4, Coco is considered fat in the modelling industry.

This is Coco's statement:

I’m a 21 year old model, 6 inches taller and 10 sizes smaller than the average American woman. Yet in another parallel universe I’m considered “fat”… This was the subject of major discussion this week and the story that was spun was: “Coco Rocha is too fat for the runway”.

Read her entire statement HERE.


This makes me sad.

If Coco Rocha is considered fat, then I'm an elephant.


photo credit: style.com

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Stalker

Friend Agnes tagged me and a few friends on Facebook with this photo.



Ganun?

Eh maraming beses na akong tinawag na stalker ah so does that mean I'm physically challenged? Hahaha!

As far as I'm concern, ang definition ng stalker is:

the pathological ANONYMOUS follower and tab-keeper of another person or persons.

Kaya lang, according to the Urban Dictionary, hindi na ito ang definition ngayon in terms of the change in time. But one word is enough to describe someone that is stalking:

CREEPY.

Okay, I admit, minsan na rin akong naging stalker but definitely not to the point of almost losing my sanity. Hahaha! Muntik lang. Charing!

Eh bakit, I can't blame myself if I get attracted to someone that is good looking and very personable.

Meanwhile, a secret admirer is:

someone who admires another romantically but purposely remains anonymous.

I also don't fall under this category since the person that I usually admire knows I'm kinda attracted to him. Hahaha! I always let them know. Ewan ko kung positive ito ha.

Anyway, what's important for me right now is that, I don't stalk anybody that I currently admire. I don't have his phone number or address. I only have his e-mail and I don't send him messages unless it's addressed to everybody in the group mailing list, I don't even know his real name.

It's enough for me to see his gorgeousness on Facebook.

Does Facebook have this application where you know how many times a person views you? I hope wala siya nun. Hahaha!

Most importantly, I have not downloaded a picture of him.



Yet.

Hahahaha!



P.S. Please don't hate me.